Is there a girl out there who your interested in but she’s not interested in you? Have you been talking to a girl before and all of a sudden she disappeared, ghosted you? Do you want to keep the attention of a girl who you just met and not repeat the mistakes of the past?
Women like men with passion, purpose and above all options. Believe it or not, as much as men are taught to believe that we are the chasers, the hunters, turns out that’s not true. Women like to hunt, women NEED to have time and space to become interested in a man. For some women this happens quickly, for others this takes time and as a man the more you chase the more it pushes her away.
You need to become detached from the outcome of dating the girl you are interested in. You need to have a full life, your career, your hobbies, your friends. Doing so will make her wonder if you are interested in her or not, or if you are with other women.
Creating space for her to chase you is very similar to creating sexual tension which we will talk about in a future post. Until then, go out and work on yourself. Dream the dreams you want to dream. Tom Cruise and Brad Pit didn’t become desirable because they chased women, they became sexy because they focused on themselves and only then the women followed.
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