Think of a sexy girl. Easy right? What do you know about her really? You know she looks amazing, but what is it about her that makes her INTERESTING?
Think of a cool guy, a guy who always gets the girl, a guy that you admire. He’s probably a bit mysterious right?
A first date with a woman isn’t about telling your entire life story. It’s about having fun. It’s about leaving something for later. It’s about slowly revealing who you are and learning about the lady.
We are all interested in things that are interesting and interesting things, interesting people are HARD to understand. They challenge us.
Why would you go see an Avengers movie if all the action happened in the first 5 min. The cliff hanger, the bonus clip at the end, the “…to be continued” that keeps you coming back for more.
It’s the same thing with women. Have fun, enjoy the other person’s company. Have a drink if you drink but just one because you want to be focused on the present moment with HER, not on the food or the drink.
And above all don’t worry about how it’s going, just enjoy the ride. If you do this the woman will FEEL your energy and she will in turn start to chase you because she will realize that you’re an interesting guy.
If you need more help on your first date, contact me for a FREE date consultation and I’ll show you an easy way to meet women!