Why do you like what you like and love what you love? Do you walk around on a sunny, beautiful day saying “Gosh, I hate rainy weather!” Or do you think and feel, “Wow, I love this amazing day!”
Part of the journey of becoming great with women and in all areas of your life is realizing that your emotional state doesn’t define who you are AND that how you perceive the world can and does change based on your emotions, your disposition, and the language that you use.
I’ll touch on this more later but would an Olympic marathoner, trying to win, tell themselves during training and the grueling 26.2 miles of the race, “I suck, I’m going to lose, I’m not fast”? No, they would say the opposite.
They, or YOU training to run a marathon, might even park REALLY far away so that you can get some extra practice; you might even take the stairs.
The point is that you would look at the stairs as an opportunity to get better and you would welcome the challenge. You’d set small, manageable goals for yourself and gradually surpass them setting higher and higher goals. Today run 1 mile; talk to 1 girl. Next week 3 miles and get a phone number. The more you practice and look at EVERYTHING as an opportunity the faster you will succeed.
I mention in another post the importance of meeting and talking to ALL women. Enjoy the process. When you enjoy the process, the magic, and view your actions through the lens of improvement, then there is NO REJECTION. There is only more winning!
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